내결혼 누구를 초대하지? Wedding Guests > 결혼 밀땅 작전

When you are a guest at a wedding, you may think that you have nothing to do, but really you play a very big role in the wedding. Today we are going to talk about the job of wedding guests. In the end, you will see that guests at the wedding play a big role in how the wedding runs.
 

First of all, as a guest at a wedding you need to come looking your best. Normally to look your best at a wedding you need to know what the theme of the wedding is. For example, if it's a beach wedding, then you need to wear beach clothing. However, if its just a traditional wedding, then it can be your call. If there is a certain theme that the bride and groom want, try to match it as close as you can. The best way to do this is to call them and ask what the theme of the wedding is. That way, even if they did not require you to dress according to the theme, you still can a little bit.
 

Next, you need to come bearing a gift of some kind. One of the best things that you can give at a wedding is money. The things that they need for their house they more than likely got during the bridal shower. If you want to give them something special, like a big TV, then make sure that they do not have one already. However, if you are ever unsure what to give the bride and groom, money is always a great way to say congratulations. No one is going to turn down a money gift.
 

Some people like to try to buy honeymoon trips for the bride and groom. However, if you are thinking about doing that, you need to check around and make sure that no one else has gotten them a honeymoon trip. Normally this is a gift that would be given by one of the parents of the people getting married. Thus, it's a good idea to check with them, and make sure that no one has done that for them already. You also need to make sure that they have not booked a honeymoon yet. If you can not find out, then make sure that you get them tickets to a place that they can use any time. For example, online tickets that you buy to a theme park stay good for over a year. That way they do not have to use it the day after they get married if they do not want to.
 

As a guest you do not have to bring anything to the wedding if you do not want to. However, it is always a nice thing to do. A good rule of thumb is to make sure that you spend as much on the gift as the dinner that they served cost. However, this is just a general rule and not anything that you have to stick to.
 

Also, as a guest at a wedding you need to come in good spirits. You have been invited to enjoy a wonderful day, so do not bring it down with a bad attitude. If you have a problem with someone at the wedding and you do not think that you guys can get a long, then do not go. You are just going to bring down the wedding for everyone else.
 

Try to remember that the day is not about you. If something is not going the way that you wish it was or you are not having fun, do not ruin the day. This is not your special day so do not try to make it about you. People hate these kinds of guests at weddings. It's like your mama always said, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all.
 

Remember, if you come to a wedding late, then do not come running into the ceremony. You will have to wait and see the bride and groom after the ceremony. If you rush in during the middle of it, you are going to cause problems. This is not your goal as a guest. If you really wanted to see them get married, then you should have been on time.
 

Try not to overeat! You need to eat what is given to you, and then go back for seconds only if there are seconds left. If not everyone is getting enough food, then do not try and get seconds before other people. If you are still hungry after the wedding, you can stop and get some fast food.
 

Overall, your best bet is to just be on your “good” behavior while you are at a wedding. Go there to have a good time and not to cause any kind of trouble. When it's your wedding, you can do what you want, but when you are a wedding guest, you need to do what you are told to do.